I remember chatting online to the loveliest Filipina girl and getting to think what a catch I had, she already knew how upset I would get from girls asking me for money, so she was extra cunning .
One day she was online and shedding many tears saying how her poor nephew was almost dying in the house from whooping cough and he may have pneumonia, but she cannot afford to take him to hospital.
I was very angry but since then always go with my gut instincts.
Good Filipina girls do not ask for money like that so early and if you explain to them money do not grow on trees for you too and she still persist Dump here ASAP.
Always insist to see them on a cam and if they make frequent excuses then you know something is not quite right and you’ve probably found a gold digger.
When I got married to a Filipina she was already in Canada working and earning her own money, but at times sending up to 80% of her money back home!
Even 2000 peso or $40 will make a big difference to someone in the Philippines who is only earning this a week. Agree a budget every month and stick to it Yes this annoys me at times because im never sure if it is a real problem or just another Filipina gold digger trying to scam me.
The best way I heard to deal with this is say this “Ok I sent you the budget already, I Can send you extra but you have to deduct it next month from your budget.” She may call you Kuripot (Tight Wad) but one thing Filipinas are not good at is money managing and tell her you have to budget too and she needs to do the same.
Many culture clashes and divorces to a Filipina wife may come from this reason.
To be honest I struggled with this area a lot until I visited the Philippines Islands and seen how poor they really are.
Test this, make a chat id that’s unknown to her, put in a fake profile and someone else’s picture.
Then try to chat with her to see how loyal she is to you.
Personally myself I believe that unless we are married then I am not financially obligated to you, it may sound harsh but in a way this is just a test.