Persistence doesn't pay off in the game of online shopping for strangers.It just makes you seem like a creeper, reinforcing said person's unexplained decision to cut you off. You never know; the next person you contact might be totally into your Cody and Pickle dress-up photo shoots.Like it or not, ghosting on someone you're messaging with is completely acceptable in the digital realm.
And since online dating is a bit of a numbers game, you'll experience this kind of silent-treatment snub -- a lot.
The thing to remember is that whoever just preemptively rejected you is someone you've never met.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
We are totally meant to be.") Hours later, you log in again and notice that your Match has viewed your profile and chosen not to respond. Rejection hurts; studies show it can actually stoke the pain nodes in your brain.
It's one thing to be rejected in a bar, where you can just tell yourself homeboy must have a boring girlfriend waiting for him at home; it's quite another to reach out to a single-and-looking chap and let him witness your entire stash of documented wit and charm before deciding you're not worth responding to.It's better than wooing you out onto a date or two and then dropping the I'm-just-looking-for-some-action bomb, amirite?If you're prudish, cluck your tongue and surf on or ignore accordingly.So, I replied:gotahubcapdiamondstarhalo11/5/2016 857 AMNo, thanks. We have found we have alot in common and I want to see where this goes. I said no thanks and bye when he asked if I wanted to chat Got back "I suppose a Blowjob out of the question"'I mean, I wouldn't spit on him for practice - glad he manned up tho So devastating to be called catlady.Thank you for your time but I see no reason for ANY further communication between us. Seriously, if I didn't want to hear from anyone again, I'd just block. I have been so accused after saying no to a date, though I have never had cats or dogs due to allergies and only know "catmen", one with more than 2..it still seems to be a satisfying retort.Sorry, Good bye.[Redacted]Maybe I should have posted this in Broken Hearts, because I'm gutted! Did I not make it clear enough I was not interested? Come up with a new would he write a diatribe to you once you said he was too far away.