7) Stay Afterwards and Chat If you've made a particularly strong connection with someone, feel free to stay after the event and continue chatting.
Having a drink and talking to someone at the end of the night will help build a stronger connection and could essentially turn into an instant first date.
It's so important, that we've dedicated an entire page to it.
Here's the mistake that 90% of guys will make on a speed date.
The challenge that most guys face in a speed dating environment, is that they fail to set themselves apart from the other daters.
Here are a few tips to help you stand out amongst the crowd: 1) Dress to Impress Not all of us have Brad Pitt's handsome features, but the good news is that we can significantly improve our level of attractiveness with nice clothes and careful grooming.
We'll also explain a unique strategy that is VERY EFFECTIVE, so be sure to check it out! Be sure to smile and convey a positive energy, because it will make the situation more comfortable for both of you. It'll help set you apart from most of the other guys who'll be trying to impress them.
The key is to do it in such a way that is playful, not insulting.The most important thing is to convey a fun, interesting personality. Speed dating is meant to be a fun event, so relax and don't take things too seriously.We'll go into a lot more detail about conversation topics on the next page. If you're too serious, you may come off as desperate or people may think you're trying too hard.Keep in mind that your match may be receiving several messages from other guys at the same time, so don't get upset if she doesn't reply right away (or if at all).If you don't get a reply, she's probably not interested - don't pursue her any further and move on to someone else.But DON'T write down notes in the middle of the date - it can make the other person feel uncomfortable and think that they're getting judged on everything they say.